Phyllis Hardy

May

Phyllis (Phyl-Phyl) Hardy May Tupponce was born on June 10, 1947, to her late parents Hazel
Hardy May and James Allen May. On March 23, 2026, several of Phyllis' family and friends
gathered to share quiet, heartfelt moments by her side. In the quiet stillness of the early
morning, an angel came and softly carried her into the presence of the Lord. Phyllis was greeted
at the heavenly gates by her parents, beloved family members and friends.

Phyllis grew up in Dundas, Va, and attended Lunenburg Elementary and Lunenburg High
School, where she became a cheerleader and student leader. Phyllis was valedictorian of her
high school graduating class of 1965.

Phyllis continued her studies at Virginia State University, where she graduated with a Bachelor
of Arts degree in General Education with a concentration in Special Education. During the
Spring of 1967, Phyllis became an illustrious lady of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated.
Phyllis graduated, with honors, from Virginia State University in 1969. Phyllis began her career
in education with the Richmond Public School System as an exceptional education teacher at
George Mason Elementary School. Phyllis' passion for working with exceptional children
continued as an educational consultant at Children's Hospital. exhibited through her work
educating disabled students as a Special Education teacher. During that time, Phyllis returned
to school and received a Master's of Arts degree from Virginia Commonwealth University. After
many years of service, Phyllis retired from the Richmond Public School System.

Phyllis married Dillard Tupponce on July 1, 1998. They enjoyed their married years traveling,
renovating Richmond's historic neighborhoods, strengthening their faith in the Lord, and
spending time with their many family members and friends.

Phyllis demonstrated her love and devotion to the teachings of the Lord, adhering to Matthew
5:16, "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your
Father in heaven." This was clearly demonstrated in her church life. For more than 15 years,
Phyllis served as the business manager of the "Passion Play: What a week for Jesus." Phyllis
also served as a counter for the Sunday collection for over 10 years. She was a dedicated
member of the AIDS ministry, where she attended retreats and workshops in support of those
living with and affected by AIDS. During the pastorship of Monsignor Walter C. Barrett, Phyllis
served as the chairperson of Pastoral Care. In this role, Phyllis helped lead initiatives, such as
the commemorative "Sages and Branches" luncheon and arranging pampering sessions for
caregivers.

Phyllis served faithfully for many years as a lector and as secretary of the finance committee.
She also worked with the youth group, providing food and refreshments for several years.
Phyllis was a devoted and active member of the Ladies of Solidarity, as well as a committed
member of the Legion of Mary, where she spent time each morning in prayer and devotion to
the Blessed Mother.

Phyllis was a tireless caretaker for many family members. She helped nurse her elder sister
Margaret while in school. Phyllis considered it a privilege to be a loving caretaker for her mother, Hazel. Phyllis took care of her sister-in-law, Hortense, during her last year.

Phyllis was also a dedicated, giving, and loyal wife to her husband, Dillard, when he became housebound.
She is survived by her sister, Allene Denise Atkinson (Michael), brother-in-law Charles Pace,
Sr., nieces Tara McIlwain, Detra Stephens (Michael), and Jamie Ann Atkinson, nephews
Charles Pace, Jr., Rodney Pace, and Michael Atkinson, Jr., stepchildren D. Langston Tupponce
Jr. (Sheila), Tomaree Tupponce Tarpley (Michael), and Tiffani Tupponce Ezell (James), and a
host of great nieces and nephews, step grandchildren, cousins, and friends.

Remains rest Scott's Funeral Home, 115 E. Brookland Park Blvd., where viewing will be held Tuesday, April 7 from 10 a.m. until 7 a.m. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, April 8 at 10 a.m. at Holy Rosary Catholic Church, 3300 R Street. Interment Private.